4 Pentecost C
Luke 9:51-62
June 27, 2004

"Hard Sayings”

Imagine this: I ask for your help on a project that is essential for the future of our church. We have to start right now. You say to me, “Pastor, I’d like to help you, but my father just died. Let me go and bury him first.” Instead of offering to do the funeral, or even offering you any sympathy, I say instead, “Let the dead bury their own dead; but as for you, go and proclaim the kingdom of God.”

Or how about this: We have a sudden opening on our Mexico Mission Trip, and we’re leaving today. I ask you to come along. You say to me. “I will follow you, but first let me say farewell to those at my home.” I answer, “No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.”

If I were so speak to you that harshly, you probably wouldn’t think I was a very good pastor. That’s why Jesus, from whom these sayings come, would not have made a very good parish pastor. From time to time, he said some things that were pretty hard to hear.

Those of us in the parish ministry are trained to take a gentler approach. We are always trying to make this thing called faith appealing. We are encouraged to make the church open and accessible to seekers. The church growth experts tell us that we are to proceed along the same lines as politicians preparing for a campaign—find out what people want by identifying what they care about.

The church that prospers is the one that both makes it easy for people to get in the door, and then makes them want to stay. So the effective church and its pastor will offer worship that is meaningful and interesting. There will be plenty of opportunities for fellowship and growth. Children and youth will find programs that are not boring. There will be plenty of ways to be engaged in meaningful service that will fit into people’s busy schedules without inconvenience.

It’s not that any of this is bad. It’s just that what Jesus says in the hard sayings in today’s gospel is so different, so strange, so unreasonable. Instead of making discipleship easy, he seems to be making it hard. Instead of making his way fit in with our other commitments and loyalties, he sets his way over against them. Instead of asking us to give up bad habits or loyalties, he asks us to choose him over home and security, over family obligations. Jesus doesn’t ask us to choose him over the worst, but over the best.

Hard sayings, indeed. Why does Jesus make discipleship so difficult? Doesn’t he care about us? If he did, he’d make it easy, right? Wrong. Jesus cares about us so much that he wants us to know how important it is to give ourselves in such a way that nothing is left over. He wants us to know how alive we can feel when we are walking with him. He wants us to know how it can breathe life into our weary souls not to be chopped up little pieces between different commitments and priorities. He wants us to be very clear about the one thing that is truly necessary and needful, so that all our other commitments and priorities in life line up behind. He makes discipleship difficult because he wants us to know what it is like to get a hold of our one true necessity.

Jesus said these hard things to his would-be disciples not because he was uncaring, but because he cared enough to be honest, to be demanding, to say upfront that following him would cost us everything that we hold dear.

That truth grates hard on the ears of a society shaped by an ethic of self-fulfillment, of independence, of individual freedom. It comes hard to a society where the holiest trinity of all may be the trinity of me, myself, and mine.

Jesus cares enough about us that he wants us to know what following him will cost us. He wants us to know, as Barbara Brown Taylor observes, that it isn’t about creating a safe, caring environment where people’s needs will be met so much as it is about living such a different way of life that those in authority may get mad enough to want to kill us. “Discipleship” she writes, “costs all that we have, all that we love, all that we are. And Jesus does not want us to be fooled about that.”   

That doesn’t mean that we in the church will stop trying to create a safe caring environment. We will still bury your dead, offer you sympathy, and help you with your family problems. We will still keep trying to meet people’s needs. But we should never forget that our deepest need is to give ourselves wholly, to commit ourselves fully, to give ourselves so completely that nothing is left over, in order that we might get a hold of our one true necessity.

Jesus reminds us of that with some hard sayings;

“Those who want to save their life will loose it.”

“Let the dead bury their own dead.”

“No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God”

But then, discipleship has never been for everyone, has it? The words of Jesus, and for that matter, Jesus himself, were never welcomed by the world. But they are words of truth for those who know that true freedom lies in deep commitment, and that abundant life is found in giving ourselves wholly to God. AMEN

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